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Responses to annoying running questions asked over the holidays

The holidays can test the patience. In some cases, just bite the tongue...

As much as family time over the holidays is the perfect opportunity to catch-up, bond and relax, it has to be said that time with the relatives can test the patience. When it does, it’s important to bite the tongue. Running is a hobby that’s easily misunderstood. Don’t be too hard on that aunt who doesn’t quite get it. Yes, these questions and statements can be grating but these are the best ways to respond. 

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“Can’t you just take a day off?” 

We’re not sure why, but non-runners seem to be adamant to convince runners to take a break from their mileage. This seems to be rooted in nothing but trust us, over the family dinner, someone will try to convince you to take time off. Your best response? Just say you’ll consider it and move on as quickly as possible. 

“Are you running the 5K marathon this year?” 

Many will use the word “marathon” to describe races of lengths other than 42.2K. It’s incorrect but guess what? It doesn’t really matter. Let it go because if you correct this person, you could end up looking like a jerk. 

“Eat more, you’re too thin.” 

Runners get this one all the time. If a relative or family friend seems to have forgotten that your weight or body type is none of their business, you’re within your right to gently correct them.  

“Eat the leftovers, you’ll just burn it off.”

While a comment like this may rub you the wrong way, brush it off. It’s meant as a positive remark. 

“Don’t worry, we made healthy options too.”

Why is it that everyone seems to think us runners are on a strict diet at all times? Over the holidays we’re probably more likely to be loading up on that second helping of stuffing or reach for that full-bodied stout. The best way to answer these comments is to just make light of it, eat whatever you want and compliment the chef. 

“Why just the half-marathon? Your New Year’s resolution should be to run the full.”

Sometimes the general public will overlook efforts that aren’t the full marathon. This just happens out of a lack of understanding – many people will simply ask about what they already know about. There’s nothing wrong with explaining why you love the half-marathon or why your 50-minute 10K was a big breakthrough for you this year. 

“Are you going to join us or do you have to be up early?”

Similar to the assumption that runners only eat healthy, some may assume that you’re not game to take part in after dinner drinks because of a looming a.m. run. In this case, actions speak louder than words. Enjoy the evening in your own true style. 

 

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