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Ingebrigtsen brothers speak out against their father and former coach

The Norwegian brothers accuse their father of aggression, control and physical violence and say he took the joy away from the sport they once loved

Photo by: Erik van Leeuwen/WC

The Ingebrigtsen brothers have been involved in a long-standing conflict with their father and former coach, Gjert Ingebrigtsen. Earlier this week, the tension reached a high point when the Norwegian Athletics Association denied Gjert accreditation for major championships in the upcoming year, including the World Indoor Athletics Championships and the Paris Olympics.

Last year, the brothers revealed that Gjert would no longer coach his sons, Jakob, Filip and Henrik, for health reasons. Later it came out that Gjert was not granted accreditation at the 2023 World Championships in Budapest and did not attend Jakob’s wedding in September, and Norwegian media dove into the feud.

Gjert Ingebrigtsen
Gjert Ingebrigtsen. Photo: Thor Brødreskift/Nordiske Mediedager

In a statement from the brothers published in the Norweigan newspaper VG, they shed light on their experiences with their father and former coach, revealing that their household while growing up was marked by aggression, control and physical violence. Although they initially accepted these circumstances, two years ago they chose to confront their traumatic past. They referred to the situation as “draining” and “unbearable.”

“We should have helped stop the situation earlier,” the brothers wrote on VG. “The fact that we didn’t weighs on us. Two years ago, we had enough. The situation we have been through in the family has taken an enormous toll. In the midst of this, we have tried to perform, but the joy of playing sports is gone.”

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Jakob and Henrik Ingebrigtsen at the 2019 European Indoor Championships in Glasgow. Photo: Filip Bossuyt/WC

The brothers asked the Norwegian Athletics Association for safety from Gjert and not to be put in situations where they may see or have to face their father. “We do not have the capacity or desire to deal with him. Not now,” said Henrik. 

“On the basis of Jakob, Philip and Henrik’s statements today, we promise to provide a safe environment and a healthy performance environment for our athletes,” the Norwegian Athletics Federation wrote in a response to their statement.

Gjert is still very much associated with Norwegian athletics as the coach of high-profile middle-distance runner Narve Gilje NordÃ¥s, who won bronze in the men’s 1,500m at the world championships in Budapest, finishing on the heels of his compatriot, Jakob Ingebrigtsen, and the new world champion, Great Britain’s Josh Kerr.

Narve Nordas
Narve Nordas celebrates his bronze medal at the 2023 World Athletics Championships in Hungary. Photo: Kevin Morris

Gjert responded to these claims through his lawyer on Thursday, denying the allegations of violence:

“The statements they make are baseless. I have never used violence against my children. That I have had weaknesses as a father, and to a great extent been a coach, is a realization I have also come to – albeit far too late.

“I’m far from perfect as a father and husband, but I’m not violent. First and foremost, this is a tragic situation for my family–we have reached the point where we are spreading false accusations against each other in the media. It makes me deeply unhappy. How we’re going to get past this, I don’t know, but we’ve got to try.”

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Filip and Jakob Ingebrigtsen in the men’s 1,500m at the 2019 World Athletics Championships in Doha. Photo: Filip Bossuyt/WC

The brothers concluded their statement by saying that they want to get back to the joy of playing sports and representing Norway “with the flag on their chest” without the shadow of their family conflict. “There are many people who want to talk to us about this matter. We don’t want that. This case has cost too much already, and now we want to move on,” they wrote.

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